Oh yeah.
We've all heard about Jack and the beanstalk.
So lets say one day you find a magic bean. Or maybe someone gave it to you, maybe your mom, maybe your dad, maybe your neighbor! What's important is they tell you its a magic bean.
And you believe them.
So what happens next?
You believe in that bean.
When it doesn't grow like the beanstalk you expect it to, you shrug it off. Well, maybe it needs time! When it doesn't allow you to climb to the skies and meet giants, you defend it. Maybe you need to sprinkle some magic water on it! Or maybe you needed special soil for the bean. You even consider that the weather isn't right, maybe thats why the bean isn't growing like a magic bean should grow.
But you never blame the bean.
Somehow you believe that whatever shortcomings that you go through is entirely your fault; but at the slightest growth of the tiny beanstalk, you believe it to be magic.
In reality,
The bean has only as much 'magic' as you will it to have.
It only grows magically as high as you let it.
If any other person were to see that beanstalk of yours, they wouldn't call it magical. No doubt about that.
Instead of you benefiting from the 'magic bean',
You have become it's defense.
Well you can keep your magic bean. By all means.
Go ahead. I have nothing against it.
But maybe I've stopped believing in mine.
